Saturday, 24 December 2016

FESTIVE SEASON: my top 10 favourite christmas songs.





[en] hello my dears. today, on christmas eve, i want to share my favourite top 10 christmas carols and instrumentals with you. some of them are merry, some of them mirror the feelings of the past horrible things that happened all over the world. all of them contain the true meaning of christmas for me: love. love as a light shining through all the times of hardship one has to endure. 'a thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices. for yonder breaks a new and glorious morn'. these lines from my most favourite christmas carol, 'oh holy night', summarizes it all.

i'm wishing a very merry christmas to all of you.

what are your favourite christmas songs of all times?


  1. oh holy night - nat king cole
  2. a christmas song - nat king cole
  3. i'm dreaming of home from merry christmas
  4. maria durch ein dornwald ging - wiener sängerknaben
  5. walking in the air from the snowman
  6. love actually – love theme
  7. twelve days of christmas - kathleen battle, frederica van stade, andré previn
  8. here come's santa claus – doris day
  9. marys boy child - kathleen battle & co.
  10. cool yule - louis armstrong


[de] hallo meine lieben. am heutigen heilig abend möchte ich meine 10 liebsten weihnachtslieder und instrumentals mit euch teilen. manche sind fröhlich und manche widerspiegeln die schrecklichen ereignisse der vergangenen tage, welche die welt und unseren frieden heimsuchen wollen. aber alle von ihnen werden geprägt von der emotion, welche das weihnachtsfest ausmachen sollte: liebe. liebe als ein licht, das in der dunkelheit leuchtet und welches all die widrigkeiten des lebens ertragbar macht. 'eine aufregende Hoffnung, die von leid getragene welt freut sich, dass ein neuer und prachtvoller morgen anbricht'. diese liedzeilen meines liebsten weihnachtsliedes 'oh holy night' fassen es perfekt zusammen.

frohe weihnachten an euch alle.

was sind eure allerliebsten weihnachtslieder?





Thursday, 22 December 2016

SHOPPING LOVE: my latest favourite picks from fashionmia.


[en] hi peeps! today i've got a new post for you featuring my latest favourite picks from the fashion onlinestore fashionmia. this is one of my favourite shop when it comes to feminine apparel with nice prints and creative shapes. the best is that you can make some really great bargains and in most cases you won't have to spend more than 20$ on one dress. in 2015 i have already shared a post with you with some collages showing some of my favourite fashionmia apparel and how to style it in the best way and this year i have finally decided to buy a wonderful emerald green vintage style lace dress and shared it in one of my posts in april 2016. in one of septembers' outfit posts i have showed you my latest fashionmia pick, an orange-coloured vocuhila long shirt in a complementary contrast with some electric blue pants.

today i want to show you my latest picks from the shop. i really love the oversized beige coat and i believe it to be perfect for layering. the black dress with the white sleeve endings and ribbon details reminded me of the elegant monocrome designs of my favourite designer chanel and thus i simply needed to have it! and the print of the colour blocking dress reminded me of mondrian paintings and i guess that it was a perfect catch at 11,95$ - don't you think ... ?!

the quality of the items can be compared to H&M and similar labels and i can recommend this shop to any fashionista who doesn't mind making some really great bargains.

have you already known fashionmia? have you ever purchased something in the shop?

Trendy Lapel Loose Fitting Plain OvercoatMandarin Sleeve Fancy Shift DressGeometric Color Block Patchwork Bodycon Dress

[de] hallo meine lieben! heute habe ich einen neuen post für euch in dem ich euch meine 3 liebsten neuen fundstücke aus dem onlineshop fashionmia zeigen. das ist eine meiner liebsten anlaufstellen wenn ich für günstiges geld tolle kleidung mit ausgefallenen schnitten und in femininen formen kaufen möchte. die preise sind wirklich traumhaft, da man kaum mehr als 20$ (also umgerechnet ca. 18€) für ein kleid ausgeben muss - preise von denen man bei H&M, zara und co. nur träumen kann. in einigen vorigen posts habe ich euch bereits den shop vorgestellt. beispielsweise habe ich 2015 einen post geschaltet mit einigen collagen die jeweils ein fashionmia kleid in kombination mit den perfekten accessoires zeigen. im april 2016 habe ich euch in einem outfit post mein smaragdgrünes spitzenkleid im skaterlook gezeigt und im september ein orange-farbenes vocuhila top in verbindung mit einer ultramarinblauen hose.

heute möchte ich euch meine neuesten lieblingsstücke von fashionmia zeigen. ich liebe den oversized geschnittenen beigefarbenen mantel und glaube, dass er sich als perfekt für layering gestaltet. das schwarze kleid mit den weißen ärmelabschlüssen und schwarzen schleifendetails hat mich direkt an chanel erinnert und gestaltet sich als für mich perfektes must-have. und das colour-blocking bodycon kleid hat mich vom print her sofort an mondrian erinnert. da ich diesen künstler und seine werke sehr liebe, ist das auch ein perfect catch ... und mit 11,95$ (ca. 9€ !!!) mehr als ein schnäppchen - was sagt ihr ... ?!

die qualität der kleider ist vergleichbar mit H&M, die preise allerdings rein gar nicht. ich kann den shop jeder fashionista empfehlen, die aber nicht immer ein vermögen für das perfekte kleid ausgeben mag.

kennt ihr bereits fashionmia und habt ihr schon mal im shop eingekauft?

click here for some more women's dresses.
click here for some more cheap maxi dresses.





Tuesday, 20 December 2016

#bloggermeeting adventskalender - INSPIRATION: 101 things in 1001 days.



[en] hello my dears. this years coming to an end very soon and ... to be honest i'm quite happy that it's just like that. too many horrible things have happened within the course of this year. in terms of world affairs just think of the new years eve of horror for many thousands of women and girls in cologne. think of great britains' exit from the european union. think of populists all over the world coming to power, of growing hate and right-wing thoughts, of paris and belgium, of turkey and the krim, of syria and, not just since yesterday, of germany. the witch-hunt against the south korean female president, a misogynist and openly right-winged president in the USA.

and in terms of my personal life my life very early had a bad start. i don't want to write too much about it, because this would be getting too personal. i can just say that it was a nightmare. and yet, there were some moments compensating many of the bad ones this year. after a long time of contact termination me and my mum reunited and managed to have a much more open dialogue and gained a deeper connection than ever before. i got to know many interesting people and new friends i don't want to miss in my life anymore. i reached 15k on instagram and got the possibility of some new and very inspiring blogger cooperations. i have visited london for the very first time with a very good friend of mine and next year there will be many more interesting blog collabs to follow. and, after a very hard time together, i have found a new friend. a friend for life and i thank god for this beautiful present.

well and i also have made up my mind about some things in my life that just don't go right - after a long period of desperation - and that i need to change some things to make it better. also in terms of work ...

you know that life can be very hard at times ... and that you will more often experience bad days than good ones.

but it's also true that, well, it's the bad times that will make you stronger and which also will make you more aware to appreciate the small happy moments. it is these very moments that make our lives worthwhile.

the auther and writer Robert Frost also knew that 'happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length'. and oh how well does that fit into my very personal life this year.

but human beings are able to transform their lives to the better, if they are willing to do so.

so why not trying to multiply the chances of happy moments by actively planning them?

that's why i love the idea of '101 things in 1001 days'. a personal list of 101 preset personal tasks in a period of 1001 days which can help you to approach life more awarely and to seize the day to the fullest!

the expression of 'things' might be a bit deceptive because the focus of course in all about moments, experiences and not actually material 'things' which can only make you happy for a very short moment and it's the moments which will linger in your hearts and which will create memories that will stay in your hearts forever.

let's get active in creating and re-creating our future. why wait for sth. to happen when you can immediately start making it happen yourself?

i hope this post to be inspirational for many of you, my dear fellow readers, and i would love you to comment below if i inspired you to create your own personal '101 things in 1001 days'.

you can find more details about the project (and more inspiration for your own list) here: dayzeroproject.com

my 1001 day project starts on december 20, 2016 and will end on september 9, 2019.

the countdown and full list are over here.



  • write the list

  • drink champagne and eat oysters with my friends on Christmas Eve
  • make gyoza and mandu with a japanese friend of mine
  • take my mum out for a musical visit
  • inspire someone to create their own 101 in 1001 days
  • make a trip with my mum
  • cook a korean dinner for my brother and my dad
  • send flowers to someone 'just because'
  • visit the graves of my grand-aunt and cousin
  • prepare a turkey feast and invite all friends to come over and share it
  • research my family tree and find out more about my ancestors
  • send out selfmade christmas cards to my family and friends
  • buy a stranger coffee
  • make a picnic with friends
  • celebrate a kick-ass 30th birthday with all my friends
  • celebrate new year's eve with my girls
  • pay for someone's order behind me in line
  • attend the wedding of a good friend/my best friend
  • build a snowman with someone
  • take silly photos in a photo booth with someone
  • leave an inspirational note inside a book for someone to find
  • write a handwritten letter to someone special in my life
  • do a closet clean and donate everything
  • visit the graves of my grand-aunt, grand-ma and cousin, light a candle and bring some flowers

  • find THE ONE
  • get engaged
  • get married
  • fast for seven days on water, tea and organic juices
  • refresh my french language skills
  • refresh my korean language skills
  • drink bubbly in a hot tub
  • see jonas kaufmann live in concert
  • take dancing lessons
  • kiss under a mistletoe
  • stop smoking
  • work through all my open browser tabs and close them
  • go to the cinema alone
  • watch every movie in which my grand-aunt linda wong took part
  • visit a horse racing
  • pay off all debt
  • see neil hammon/god help the girl/stuart murdoch in concert
  • Ride in a hot air balloon
  • visit an antique market
  • be able to say thank you in 10 different languages
  • restart archery
  • manage to fit into my old prom dress until my 30st birthday
  • sing at a karaoke bar
  • reach 55 kilos/size S (or be happy at my weight and say, “Screw it”)
  • dance in the rain
  • read all 'a song of ice and fire' books
  • go swimming at night
  • say yes to 5 things i'd normally say no to
  • finally put up my own curtains in my flat
  • read the bible completely
  • take a mensa test
  • visit the roomers rooftop bar in baden-baden
  • attend a TV show or sth. TV related
  • visit a karaoke bar again
  • visit a day spa and get a massage
  • write my name into the sand
  • paint another oil painting

  • write a list of 100 places i still want to visit in my life
  • visit my cousins in NYC
  • visit my grand-uncle in texas
  • visit las vegas
  • revisit my family in south korea
  • visit japan
  • visit barcelona
  • visit oia
  • visit a city in germany i have never visited before
  • visit mont saint michel
  • visit rome
  • give berlin another try

  • visit a fashion week
  • have a reader meet-up
  • reach 20000 followers via instagram
  • reach 30000 followers via instagram
  • reach 50000 followers via instagram
  • have a shooting in paris
  • have an extravagant beauty shoot
  • create new business cards
  • find a job i love
  • test my english language skills and receive a certificate
  • write another book
  • celebrate my 5th blog anniversary with a photo shooting and golden balloons


  • learn how to make pasta
  • have a fancy dinner on the beach
  • try fugu fish
  • take a baking course on how to create opulent cookies/cakes
  • Try eight new-to-me foods
  • eat a burrito
  • drink a crazy shake
  • go berry picking

  • own a coffee table book
  • own a car
  • own a chanel 2.55
  • own a better camaera (DSLR or sth. similar)
  • own a go-pro
  • get that star-wars themed IKEA lamp that's so cool
  • get me a costume/trouser suit with the perfect fit
  • buy a new pair of glasses
  • own another game of thrones costume
  • own a damier bag

Thursday, 15 December 2016

FESTIVE SEASON: CHICWISH flared brocade dress, gamiss bucket bag, dragon bracelet, chanel earrings.



[en] hi peeps! today i've got another festive outfit post for you. the shooting took place that the beautiful castle favorite near baden-baden. i have worn a beautiful flared brocade midi dress by chicwish, my favourite chanel earrings and my gamiss bucket bag which i also took with me at the grand prix ball in september. i think that flared dresses are perfect to create a feminine shape and my new friend, paula the swan, thought alike!

what will you wear at the upcoming christmas days?



Friday, 9 December 2016

EVENT: FESTIVE SEASON - grand prix ball baden-baden 2016.



[en] hi peeps! within my festive season series today i want to show you some impressions of my first ball i have ever attended in baden-baden. i have visited the grand prix ball which took part in the time-honoured bénazet hall at the kurhaus casino within the baden-racing festival week on the 3rd of september.

it was a glamorous evening with a wonderful framework program, an amazing 4 course dinner, many of well-dressed people and a live swing band, which attracted the guests to the dancefloor.

furthermore all the guests got free entrance to the casino which was located in the same building. the guests were also given a red carpet welcome and it was an amazing feeling to walk across it with all the numerous spectators.

all female guests were gifted with an escada goody bag which included a voucher worth 200€ and a dusty blue wallet.

in my floor-length red lace dress i felt more than appropriately dressed.
yes, i definitely should have taken more pictures but my senses and synapses were too busy but also more than satisfied.

the next ball in baden-baden will take place on new years eve. prices range between 140€ - 180€. please click here for more details.
don't let the chance slip, it's worth it!


floor-length red lace dress: cndirect (similar here) / earrings: chanel (similar here) / bag: gamiss (DIRECT LINK)

Monday, 21 November 2016

SHOOTING: FESTIVE SEASON - red evening dress, golden clutch, white blazer.



[en] hi peeps! with christmas and new year's eve just around the corner and all the glamorous events along the way i want to start a new series on my blog with festive outfits and tips for going out in baden-baden and the surrounding area for this years holiday season. i hope you like it!




Friday, 18 November 2016

Monday, 14 November 2016

Sunday, 13 November 2016

Wednesday, 9 November 2016

STATEMENT: what is wrong with you, citizens of the world?


[en] fellow readers. this blog is about all about what makes life beautiful. it isn't supposed to be political. but today, again, i can't help it but to make a statement about what is happening nowadays.

with populists all around the world coming to power.
with a radical right winged front national in france.
with a mayor in the UK nudging the british people to vote themselves out of the european union.
with white policemen killing unarmed, innocent black citizens in the US.
with a righ wing populist party managing to gain huge procentual amounts of votes in the electional results in germany, who demand border patrols to shoot at refugees who want to cross the german borders.
with an US election campaign which was characterized by demagogic slogans, recrimination, sexism and lies.
and now, finally, with a right wing misogynist narcissist idiot with a severe psychological disorder who can now call himself as the most powerful man in the world.

there once was a lunatic mentally disturbed man who changed the course of history to the worst, by preaching hate and fear. this didn't happen centuries ago, but in our very recent history, just some decades ago. this isn't theory. this was an urgent threat for many people who died painfully.
in concentration camp. in ghettos. and on battlefields throughout the world.

please, reconsider your thoughts.
reconsider your actions.
reconsider history.

is this what you want the world to look like?
is this the world you really want to live in?

we are all fellow humans. we are all brothers and sisters, descendants of the same group of people who once began to settle the different parts of our world.
we are all the same.

stupidity shouldn't get the better of tolerance, liberty and humanity. todays decision is worse than all that happened before. it is worse than the brexit referendum. and it is a sad day for the LGBT movement, women, emigrants, for everything that barack obama had achieved before, and, all in all, for all the people in the US and the world.

don't preach hate. preach love. don't let yourselves be mesmerized by lunatic ideas from lunatic people whose hearts are full of hatred.

this is a sad day for humanity. i've lost a bit of my faith in people. but people are full of flaws. they always were. this is human. but it is our deeds, and or thoughts, that make a difference.

reconsider this.

today, no pictures. i believe it to be inappropriate.


Saturday, 5 November 2016

SHOOTING: dreaming of summer - denim off shoulder blouse & shorts, wedges, chanel earrings.



[en] hi peeps! the days are getting colder an colder and i still love to think back to the last summer days and the last warming rays of the summer sun. i'm not used to the cold and i prefer warmer temperatures. i also was thinking about emigrating to cuba, but only for fun, haha. so let us dream back to those wonderful days. my next posts will all feature the theme 'dreaming of summer' and i hope that they will also let you remember the beloved summer season.




model & styling: dahi k.
photography: florian gehrmann.
location: schloss bruchsal.